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Letter from the Gulf

Rear Adm. Barry M. Costello ’73

Rear Adm. Barry M. Costello ’73 Rear Adm. Barry M. Costello, USN, ’73 wrote to HCM on April 5 from the USS Constellation in the northern Persian Gulf. A native of Vermont, he was commissioned an ensign through the College’s NROTC Program. His sea tours include service as a navigator aboard the USS Brownson (DD868); weapons officer aboard the USS Whipple (FF 1062); operations officer of Destroyer Squadron Five; executive officer aboard the USS Harry W. Hill (DD 986); commanding officer of the USS Elliot (DD 967); assistant chief of staff for operations THIRD Fleet, and commander, Destroyer Squadron 23. Costello attended Albany Law School where he earned a juris doctor degree. He is currently a member of the New York State Bar. He also attended the College of Naval Command and Staff where he was selected as honor graduate, graduating “with distinction,” and earned a master of arts degree in foreign affairs. Additionally, he has participated in the National Security Program at the John F. Kennedy School of Government at Harvard University.

Rear Adm. Costello’s primary shore assignments include: joint planner in the Operational and Interoperability Directorate (J-7), the Joint Staff, and principal deputy for Senate Liaison in the Navy’s Office of Legislative Affairs. His current assignment is deputy director for strategy and policy (J-5), the Joint Staff. Rear Adm. Costello’s personal decorations include the Legion of Merit with gold star; Joint Meritorious Service Medal; the Meritorious Service Medal with two gold stars; and the Navy Commendation Medal with gold star. He is married to the former LuAnne Golombowski of Durango, Colo. They have two sons, Aidan and Brendan.

I write this note from the USS Constellation in the northern Persian Gulf (5 April 03). Our ground forces entered Baghdad today, just over two weeks since the beginning of the war. This action was made possible by a series of events which preceded it. The Navy saved United Nations’ oil workers who were being brought to Basrah against their will; saved the gulf oil platforms, preventing an environmental disaster (Iraqis were ready with explosives to blow them, flooding the gulf waters with oil); eliminated the Iraqi navy—neutralizing a suicide threat to coalition forces; fired over 750 tomahawk missiles and flew thousands of strike sorties at military targets to prep the battlefield for our ground forces; and cleared mines from the KAA waterway so that humanitarian aid could flow to the Iraqi people via the port city of Umm Qasr.

The young people engaged in this conflict are making America proud. They are ordinary volunteer patriots from across the country who do extraordinary things every day, and they make them seem routine because of their dedication and professionalism. They did not choose this fight, but now that we are engaged, they want to finish it. They see protest around the world and note frequently that they fight to preserve that right of dissent.

My years at Holy Cross helped me develop a value system which has held me in good stead over the years. I learned from the upper classmen how to fight for diversity when the faculty was moving to evict ROTC from the campus as a symbolic gesture against the war in 1969. The leaders of the units appealed for a student referendum. The faculty, confident in the result, agreed, and the rest is history. We appealed to our fellow students, making the case that evicting ROTC from Holy Cross would have the opposite effect—robbing the nation’s military of liberal arts-educated leaders. Students voted 2-1 to retain, resulting in Holy Cross being the only school to my knowledge to have an uninterrupted ROTC program. For or against the war, we lived together, accepting that diversity of opinion was healthy and should be encouraged.

We were given the gift of a liberal arts education, but the real lessons of life that I retain to this day came outside the classroom from my fellow students. I learned about integrity from Rob Malone, when he chose to decline the money from his NROTC scholarship mid-year instead of waiting until the end of the semester. It was a fiscally significant decision which could have many complexities. Yet Rob made it simple—it was the right thing to do—and he had the moral fiber to make the call.

Lessons in leadership came from Chris Schellhorn, as he set the example on the intramural football field and as head of the NROTC program. Mike “Chief” Murray taught the art of negotiation, a trait which he continues to use in his successful law practice in Providence. These were the “go to” guys. If there was a challenge, send it their way, and it would be solved. “Fire and forget,” if you ask something of these guys, because you knew it would happen ... period. Today, 30 years after graduation, I know that if I picked up the phone and asked for their help, the only question would be ‘what time do you want me there?’ The same loyalty goes back to them from me.

I am blessed to be leading part of the greatest Navy the world has ever seen, at one of its brightest moments in history. We recognize that we are the last instrument of national power—after the diplomatic, economic, and political tools. We did not choose to be on the point in this war, but now that we are here, we will help ensure the job is finished, the Iraqi people liberated, and the threat of WMD (weapons of mass destruction) is diminished for our children. Thank you, Holy Cross, for setting me on this path. I could not have asked for a better foundation for success.

RADM Barry M. Costello ’73
Commander, Cruiser Destroyer Group 1
Commander, CONSTELLATION Battle Group

 

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